- Posted by Team Superwoman
- On September 25, 2013
Okay so you met a really nice girl, you liked her, she seemed to like you too. You went out on one date and now, she doesn't pick your calls and you thought the feeling was mutual so what did you do wrong? Let's see
TALKED TOO MUCH ABOUT YOURSELF
I've written in a previous article in which I stated that many at times men are self centred but they don't realise it. So in your attempt to impress her, you spent all evening focusing on yourself and asked little or no questions about her. She has tagged you as selfish and believe me, you're not the first of your kind she's seen.
SHE SAW YOUR BAD HABBIT
Maybe she counted the number of bottles you drank (and you over did it) or she saw you pick your nose or use your finger as your tooth pick. She must have seen something she really hates, something she knows she can't stand.
YOU TALKED TOO MUCH ABOUT YOUR EX
Hearing you going on about how wonderful or how evil your ex is is a real mood-killer. It can make your date feel as though you are not interested in her and are not really over your ex. It is fine to mention in passing about a past relationship, but that is all. Save the romantic history for a later date and concentrate on getting to know her.
YOU CAME ON TOO STRONG
There's a possibility that she felt a lot of pressure from you and withdrew herself. Maybe you gave out too much information about your family or about how you're looking for a wife to marry in two months. Next time, play it a bit cooler, there is nothing wrong with being friendly but bear in mind that you are meeting someone new with a view to getting to know her better, not an immediate marriage proposal.
YOU SAID SOMETHING SHE FOUND OFFENSIVE
If you say something that conflicts with her value system, she'll walk away and never look back. This is actually good news. If you and your date don't connect on a fundamental level, you have no chance at success anyway.
SHE JUST WASN'T INTERESTED
Women can tend to be people-pleasers and she may have just taken your number because she didn't like to hurt your feelings by telling you to your face that she wasn't interested.
So maybe next time you won't make these mistakes *winks*