- Posted by Team Superwoman
- On June 8, 2014
This month, the guy responded to a topic the girls discussed earlier here “why men cheat” this is what they had to say
cuz some the men do think there women cheat on them and most time jealousy causes it…
Hahahaha nice one
Depends on the perspective u r looking at it from. I’ld say tension in a relationship, atimes peer pressure, Guys wld like to be like their pals, for me I’m single phased *winks
There’s a lot of reasons why men cheat.
As our making differs so does our reasons too. For me, MEN IN LOVE DON’T CHEAT. You will hardly see any man IN LOVE with their Wife/GF/partner or what ever you chose to call it, cheating. Everyother common reasons like peer pressure, having beautiful girls around, boosting ego, fulfilling sexual fantasies etc. ….Will never push men in love to cheat. Simply put; Men cheat because they don’t love their wife enough not to cheat on her. Men understand this point very well. You’ll rarely see men forgive their wife when caught. You’ll hear “If she loves me, she won’t cheat on me” the same applies to men too.
Jeez! You want me 2b real and thorough wiv u… Yeah?
Yes Sir, pls do?
Aii. actually m single and technically I don’t cheat…
Here goes: 1. Adventure: most men wana try out new stuff, d quest for adventure. Add peer pressure to the mix. Yes, guilty as charged.
2. Greed & Insatiable Appetite/Lust: most engage on a ‘sex- spree’ just to satisfy their ego. Call it ego-tripping. And when a man has a woman datz not his match in bed, he seeks satisfaction elsewhere. Some believe that so far as a man can like pounded yam & still have eba or cereal, he can love his wife & still have oda delicacies
3. Indiscipline – d bedrock of the whole issue. A simple guy suddenly finds himself in Delilah’s bosom-trust me, some ladies can start a war. Many guys who have no intention watsoever hav suddenly woken up in strange beds just bcuz they allowed some Jezebel an inch space. When he shows no interest, they say, ‘he aint man enough’. D poor guy in question begins to doubt his masculinity & to prove self… Trust me, some women we’re born just to make men fall-leave out d ‘juju’ & schemes & other machinations. A man without discipline is a goner. At a point I think its grace. If a woman wants you, all it takes is God #confession. Even from Bible times till now. Beside every successful man is a woman and behind every successful man’s downfall is also a woman. I hail una. Una get power
4. The Woman: If a woman doesn’t learn how 2 please her man or tame him as d case may be, she’ll lose him. A man’s a baby-very unpredictable. A man expects a woman to multi-task-cook, clean, advise, baby-sit, manage, and even be a prostitute & look gud all @d same tym! If a woman has any short-coming from her man’s expectation & doesn’t seek to address that ish, she leaves a gap for him to cheat
Men cheat for various reasons. However, some of the reasons r sensible,som r obnoxious,while som are down right hilarious. B4 I continue, are we looking at dis from a ‘relationship’ point of view or a ‘married’ point of view? Cos d reasons in diz 2 distinction differ
In relationships, men cheat somtimes cos they’re weighing their options.They hv more than 1 partner cos they’re trying to ascertain d 1 they’d eventually settle wit.
Also,they cheat in order not to feel heartbroken peradventure their partner decides to walk out. I believe they call it “having a spare tire” another reason they cheat is cos they want to explore and one reason they cheat, but fail to consider it a reason,is cos they’re cowards. U’re wit a woman who u dn’t feel comfortable wit, u apparently wn’t marry, why not just break up wit her n get som1 else?
Now to the married men, Remember i said som r sensible,obnoxious & some hilarious?
Some married me cheat cos they’re living in hell. They’re living wit an abusive wife or an intense trouble-making wife. This tend to push som men away cos home should be a place of rest,peace & quietness. If u cn’t get that in ur home,then searching for it somewhere else would be unavoidable in most cases
Some married men cheat cos they can (obnoxious).Maybe they were not fortunate to have wealth wen they were single,n wen the money starts coming in,they decide to cheat just cos they hv the means & they can.I know a man like that.He has a faithful wife,loving,respectful n all,wit 3 lovely kids,but he is a chronic cheater n it’s simply cos he can afford to be.He knws his wife wn’t leave him n he also has d resources to cheat
Then, there’s the married men who cheat cos they want to experiment & don’t feel comfortable experimenting on their wives (hilarious).So they go out in search of women they can experiment with Also,there r d ones who cheat cos they want to explore. Their wives are considered the ‘usual’ & so they want something different. Hence,they go out in search of different
The last reason I can think of,why married men cheat,is that they made a mistake in their choice of wife & cos they’re married,it feels too late to correct the mistake, so they opportunity for cheating know a man who’s bin seeing a particular girl for half a decade. The reason is cos him & his wife have little in common,but he obviously didn’t know until after their wedding
My appreciation to all those who participated in this month’s edition of “Guys point of view”, thank you for the honesty in your contributions. The conversation continues; leave a comment to share your opinion.