- Posted by Team Superwoman
- On March 31, 2015
I know how it feels to lack self esteem sometimes; it sucks. The worst part is you cant talk about it cause you don’t have the confidence enough to admit that you don’t have self confidence; get it? any-ho? these 9 steps will be of help trust me.
GET A JOB: This is my first point because money answereth all things. When you make your own money you can afford to change alot of things about yourself and be your own woman. You know all those times when you want to change so much about yourself but cant afford to? getting a Job will change all that.
GET A MAKEOVER: So many times women have have self esteem issues because of how they look. if you don’t like how you look change it. Your life is yours to control. That’s why i listed getting getting a job as the first point as this will allow you get the required make over you need. its important for a lady to look classy and stylish so don’t criticized all those girls flaunting their peruvian hair about. Go shopping, get some high heels, pencil skirt and make up and watch how your walking-step changes.
LOOSE WEIGHT: Yep, loose weight. if you’re not comfortable with how you look change it. Being overweight has a way of robbing you of your self confidence so if you feel you need to loose some pounds in other to feel better with yourself, be determined and start now.
DON’T TAKE EVERYTHING PERSONALLY: Those with true confidence know that any perceived ego blow is more a reflection of the speaker than of them.
When you’re able to hear criticism and not take it personally, your reactions change. Nobody’s opinion of you is more important than yours.
GET OUT OF THAT BAD RELATIONSHIP: OMG a bad relationship is one thing that can rob you of your self esteem so fast before you know what hit you. If you have an abusive lover (verbally or physically) run as fast as you can. you may not realize how much he’s presence has affected your life negatively until you look back and compare who you are now and who you were before you met him.
HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE WHO BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOU: Yep I know you’ve heard this over and over again. Friends who keep you around only to talk you down so they can make themselves look better are not friends. you are nobody’s side kick. they are worst than a bad boyfriend.
FOLLOW YOUR PASSION: What ever it is you love to do is what you should be doing. Doing what you love has a way of boosting your esteem like crazy.
GET YOURSELF A MAN (THAT LOVES YOU AND YOU LOVE IN RETURN): Yes I said it. Believe me I don’t know how to give some detailed explanation about how this can help your life but you’ll thank me later. The feeling of being loved and accepted can be a major self esteem builder so stop playing hard to get for that fine guy you like, go for it.
BE YOURSELF: I cannot overemphasized this enough. There is nothing more important than being yourself. Nobody can do you like you. Don’t try to emulate someone else because you’re not comfortable with who you are people can see right through that and it makes them loose respect for you. Be comfortable with who you are, this is the first step to self improvement. If you feel who you are is not good enough, and you could be better, then improve but don’t fake it, it shows.